Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Mind Your Own Business!


As I was giving our grass the first cutting of the season, I began to chuckle to myself. I had already worked out for almost an hour and worked up quite a sweat and here I was again, sweating and huffing, as I power cut the yard. I imagined the lovely vision that I embodied and I remembered a quote from a neighbour child to my mother when we were growing up. My mom had been cutting the grass one day and was interrupted by this child who said in a rather haughty voice, "My mother says real ladies don't cut grass." LOL!!!

It was rather obvious that my grass-cutting mother had been a recent topic of conversation in their home and I must say my mother trained me well, for I can often be found out there cutting my own lawn...and loving it!! I started contemplating what real ladies do and I was reminded that real ladies, unlike our nosey neighbour, actually mind their own business. Don't believe me? Read this...

1 Thes. 4:10-12 (NASB-U)
But we urge you, brethren (sisters ;O) ), to excel still more, [11] and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life and attend to your own business and work with your hands, just as we commanded you, [12] so that you will behave properly toward outsiders and not be in any need.


I have often told my kids as we were working at home, either outside cutting grass and gardening or in the kitchen cooking and canning, that this is why the Lord told us to be busy at home and mind our own business. If we are doing what He says, then we will not have time to involve ourselves in foolish conversations, gossip and other such idle forms of communicating.

Prov. 31 puts it like this...

Proverbs 31:27 (MsgB)
She keeps an eye on everyone in her household,
and keeps them all busy and productive.


So here's to all us grass-cutting, dirt-digging, family-loving women...we're real ladies because we love Jesus and we're about His business as we seek to mind our own!

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Trust...


I have some things on my heart today that are causing me to become quite anxious! This is not a state I usually find myself in and I don't like it! I have been calling out to the Lord a lot this morning and a number of times I have heard, "Don't let your heart be troubled." I looked this verse up in The Message and I love what it says...

John 14:1 (MsgB)
"Don't let this throw you. You trust God, don't you? Trust me.


I do trust Him because He has always proven Himself trustworthy. I am finding myself singing this a lot today...

Blessed Be Your Name
In the land that is plentiful
Where Your streams of abundance flow
Blessed be Your name

Blessed Be Your name
When I'm found in the desert place
Though I walk through the wilderness
Blessed Be Your name

Every blessing You pour out
I'll turn back to praise
When the darkness closes in, Lord
Still I will say

Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your name
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your glorious name

Blessed be Your name
When the sun's shining down on me
When the world's 'all as it should be'
Blessed be Your name

Blessed be Your name
On the road marked with suffering
Though there's pain in the offering
Blessed be Your name

Every blessing You pour out
I'll turn back to praise
When the darkness closes in, Lord
Still I will say

Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your name
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your glorious name

Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your name
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your glorious name

You give and take away
You give and take away
My heart will choose to say
Lord, blessed be Your name


My heart's desire is that I would be able to sing blessed be the Name of the Lord no matter what may come my way! In the meantime...Breathe in, breathe out! Breathe in, breathe out!

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Birthday Present to Myself!

I love quilts and I love antiques stores so for my birthday my friend and I went antiquing! This was my acquisition and I love it...

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It has all the same colours as the quilt I made for our bed and it matches beautifully. Not bad for a $60 find! It is in perfect condition and it makes me happy! :O)

A New Thing...

Well, I guess it's time to post something new, although I hate to see that pretty flag scroll down! ;O)

Psalm 143:8 (MsgB)
If you wake me each morning with the sound of your loving voice,
I'll go to sleep each night trusting in you.
Point out the road I must travel;
I'm all ears, all eyes before you.

Psalm 5:3 (NASB-U)
In the morning, O Lord, You will hear my voice;
In the morning I will order my prayer to You and eagerly watch.

Lament. 3:21-26 (NASB-U)
This I recall to my mind,
Therefore I have hope.
[22] The Lord's lovingkindnesses indeed never cease,
For His compassions never fail.
[23] They are new every morning;
Great is Your faithfulness.
[24] "The Lord is my portion," says my soul,
"Therefore I have hope in Him."
[25] The Lord is good to those who wait for Him,
To the person who seeks Him.
[26] It is good that he waits silently


I am so thankful for so many verses, these in particular, which talk about the mercy of the Lord and the hope that is found in Him with each new day! I have been prayerful lately about some things and I am so thankful for the hope I have in Him to be faithful and answer in His time and in His way.

My heart does yearn to hear from Him and to sense His wisdom and direction. I do have a heart full of hope that He is sovereign and His plans for us are to prosper us and not to harm us and to give us a future and a hope.

*Big contented sigh* Resting in Him today with great expectation and hope! \O/

Sunday, February 28, 2010

O, Canada!!



Whew! Who knew watching a hockey game could be such a good aerobic workout! I should have worn my heart monitor because I know my heart rate got up there!

I tried to tell myself before the game that I really was good with either team winning, but I really was kidding myself! I love the USA, but my Canadian roots apparently go deep and I had to pull for the "home" team!

I must also admit I was sporting a pair of these, in the living room while I watched.



Somehow I felt that between the mittens and the red Roots Canada shirt, it had to help give the boys momentum! Looks like it worked!

O, Canada, our home and native land...

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Scripture...


Hebrews 4:12 (NLT)
For the word of God is full of living power. It is sharper than the sharpest knife, cutting deep into our innermost thoughts and desires. It exposes us for what we really are.


It is amazing how the Lord brings scripture to our minds and to our attention just when we need it most. More often than not, it does cut into my deepest thoughts and desires and it does expose me for who I really am. This morning I was reading a blog and saw this scripture...

Proverbs 16:21 (NASB-U)
The wise in heart will be called understanding,
And sweetness of speech increases learning.


Wow! As a Mama and as a homeschooler, this is a very timely verse. As someone whose husband is gone a lot right now and who can get a tad overwhelmed trying to keep all my plates spinning, a verse about sweetness of speech is always timely. How true it is that we increase the chances of our children learning from us if we have a sweet voice and attitude. When I am frustrated and spouting off, I can see their eyes glaze over and their hearts and ears shut down.

Ephes. 4:29 (NASB)
Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, that it may give grace to those who hear.


I think it's time to copy this verse out again and post it somewhere prominently for us ALL to see!! Oh how I desire for my words to give grace to those who hear.

Lord, please help me be ever mindful of EVERY word that proceeds from my mouth, that they may give grace to those who hear. Thank You for your Words that do convict, instruct and guide! Would I continue to seek wisdom and understanding through scripture and then be quick to apply what You show me!! May my speech be sweet, that the learning and understanding of my children will be increased...especially as it pertains to You!

Sunday, February 21, 2010

Justice and Mercy...


Tim loves watching Court TV and court shows and anything that involves the justice system. I hate them! Really, I do. You know those shows like 20/20 that lay out a scenario and then proceed to share from both sides of the issue? They confuse me so much! I see the first side present their case and I usually end up totally convinced they are right...until the other side presents their case! Uughhhh! I would so make a terrible juror!

I have been working through an issue with a friend in which both of us had reached conclusions about the other. Our communication left much to be desired and only led to the breakdown of our relationship. Finally, I think because some faithful friends have been praying, this friend and I have been able to talk and share our hearts. It has been good for us because we have seen that there was another side than only the one we could see and we have been able to lay to rest some of the wrong conclusions that had been arrived at. I hurt her and she hurt me and ultimately it was because we both were much more able to see our own side of things!

My Bible study this morning was about mercy. It was a timely study and one, although I had done it a couple of years before, the Lord obviously knew I needed to hear again. I was reminded of this scripture...

Micah 6:8 (MsgB)
But he's already made it plain how to live, what to do,
what God is looking for in men and women.
It's quite simple: Do what is fair and just to your neighbor,
be compassionate and loyal in your love,
And don't take yourself too seriously—
take God seriously.


There is a reason that He says as much as it is possible for us we should live at peace with everyone. The burden of fractured relationships is one He doesn't desire for us to carry. We have a need to extend and receive mercy and grace and be compassionate and loyal in our love to one another! My friend and I have humbled ourselves and confessed and asked for forgiveness from each other. What a relief to be free from that burden.

Lord, thank You for the gift of mercy that You extended to us through Your Son, Jesus Christ. Thank You that because of that gift, we can extend mercy to each other. Lord, help me to not take myself so seriously that I end up not taking You as seriously as I should. Please help me to walk in a way that is pleasing to You and that is just and fair to others. Thank You for restoration and healing that can be found only in You!

Thursday, February 18, 2010

My Best Friend...



My best friend, Tim, left me today! Not permanently... just for his annual spring training run! The kids and I used to pack up and go with him for a month, but as they grew older and had sports and now school and as his responsibilities expanded, we are no longer able to accompany him.

I'm always incredibly sad when he leaves. He truly is my best friend and while it is only a few weeks, it seems like an eternity that we are separated. It's not that I can't handle things while he is gone and it is certainly much less time than he would be gone if he was still playing or coaching, but I do miss him terribly.

I am asking Papa to meet me in a special way this time, though. I am fasting from a particular cyber spot where I have a number of close friends in order to spend some concentrated time in prayer about a couple of situations that are weighing heavily on me. I know I can tend to go to these special friends first rather than Him and I really want to hear from Him.

Psalm 96:6 (NASB-U)
Splendor and majesty are before Him,
Strength and beauty are in His sanctuary.


This verse has been a favourite of mine for a long time and I do so believe that strength and beauty are found in His presence! I desire to be a strong and inwardly beautiful follower of Him! I desire to have right relationships with others("If possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all men." ~ Romans 12:18). I desire to have a heart that is at peace no matter what is going on around me and I desire for Him to find me faithful to whatever assignment He sets before me.

Lord, thank You for prompting me to set aside this time of separation from Tim in order to spend some special time with You! I am excited about what You will show me and share with me about myself and how I relate to others! Here I am...please show me Yourself!!

Saturday, February 13, 2010

Snowfall 2010!!

I feel like Papa gave me a birthday present wrapped in a big white bow!

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Thursday, February 11, 2010

Cleaning!


Today is an exciting day so far! I actually felt well enough to clean! It's amazing how fun even cleaning can be when you have been too sick to do it for a while!

I made my bed, cleaned both bathrooms, wiped down the kitchen and vacuumed the whole upsatirs. I am taking a brief break and then I am going to clean a few windows and the bathroom mirrors. Jesse is doing school and the littles are cleaning their rooms.

Aaahhhh, life feels almost back to "normal"! :O)

Thank You, Lord, for helping me find joy in cleaning today! Thank You for perspective only You can give that allows us to rejoice in things we may not normally rejoice in! Thank You for health, deep breaths and clean surfaces! Amen!

P.S. Oh, and it's sunny to boot! Makes me feel even more energetic to actually see that welcome yellow ball in the sky!!

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

My Valentine!!!



This will be our 20th year of marriage and our 19th Valentine's Day together. To say that I am blessed would be the understatement of the year! Papa totally outdid Himself when He brought a girl from Canada and a boy from Georgia and allowed their paths to cross and their hearts to intertwine! I couldn't ask for anyone to complement me any better than Tim does!

So 20 years...

5 amazing children...

a little heartache...

a lot of fun...

some sleepless nights...

ministry highs...

and ministry lows...

sickness...

and health...

countless ball games...

more than our share of travel...

private laughs...

knowing looks...

whispered dreams...

grace extended...

grace received...

and a love that bubbles over...

He's mine and I'm his and I am so happy I feel my heart could bust! I love you, Tim Cash, and can't wait to celebrate many more Valentines with you!!

Monday, February 8, 2010

Today's Perspective...



Curled up like a cat
In a patch of January sun
Time stretched out before.

No self-imposed expectations
Or to-do lists beckoning
As is usually the case.

Rather simply a heart
Thankful to be experiencing
The gift of another day.

Sickness which hung like a veil
Has lifted and leaves in its wake
A tired, but happy soul.

Conscious once again
That health is a state
We often take for granted.

Taking joy in the gentle cuddles
That, out of necessity,
Had to be temporarily suspended.

Reveling in the simple
And the mundane routines of life
That for today seem holy.

Out of the Fog!


Psalm 59:16-17 (NASB-U)
But as for me, I shall sing of Your strength;
Yes, I shall joyfully sing of Your lovingkindness in the morning,
For You have been my stronghold
And a refuge in the day of my distress.
[17] O my strength, I will sing praises to You;
For God is my stronghold, the God who shows me lovingkindness.


Finally feel like I am coming out of the fog of sickness where one day runs into another and time loses all direction. It's been 6 days since I came down with H1N1 which then turned into pneumonia. To say it knocked me down for the count is an understatement!

I am thankful, though, for His care of me while I was sick and for sending so many tangible touches of His love. I imagine it's going to be a week of slowly working to get my breath and my strength back, but for today I will thank Him for the sun streaming in my window and the fact that I finally had enough strength to take a shower.

Friday, February 5, 2010

Sick!!!

Well, I finally was able to drag myself out of bed long enough for Tim to take me to the Dr. Apparently the reason I have felt so bad is that I had H1N1 which has now turned into pneumonia! Yep ~ I deserved to feel bad! ;O)

My Dr. gave me some steroids and an antibiotic and hopefully they will help me perk up in a couple of days! The best part of going to the Dr. was that he loves Jesus and when he got done he laid hands on me and prayed for me! Isn't that the coolest?

Since I am sick and have sickness on my mind, I thought I would post my favourite being sick video! This movie is quoted a lot in our house at times of sickness and other equally pathetic moments! I think you'll enjoy it!

I'll try and come up with some things to post about while I lay here trying to breathe! May be a day or two before I can come up with anything too profound! ;O) Bear with me...

Thursday, February 4, 2010

The "F" "F" Rule!


Proverbs 19:11 (MsgB)
Smart people know how to hold their tongue;
their grandeur is to forgive and forget.


Yep, that it ~ The "F" "F" Rule...Forgive and Forget!

I was talking to a friend the other day who is working through some relational struggles with a friend of hers and she said, "You know, the good thing about getting older and forgetful is that you forget who you're supposed to be holding a grudge against because you can't even remember what they did to you!" I cracked up when she said this because it is SO true.

Whether it is a case of old-age amnesia or just choosing to forgive and forget, it is always the right things to do. The benefits always have a lot more to do with our relationship with the Lord than it does with letting the offender off the hook. It is for our sakes that He encourages us to forgive and forget because He knows how capable we are of allowing bitterness to take root.

Philip. 3:13 (NASB)
Brethren, I do not regard myself as having laid hold of it yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead,


I used to struggle with this verse a little because of the word "forgetting". My struggle was based on ignorance, though, because that verse does not imply the inability to remember, but rather literally means "no longer influenced or affected by". There is a big difference between the two, don't you think?

True forgetting is being able to remember what happened without becoming all knotted up inside and without needing to play out the video in its entirity. Would that I would be found faithful in this area of forgiving and forgetting!

Thank you, Lord for bringing to mind so many key verses in this walk that encourage us to remain unencumbered by grudges and unforgiveness. My hope is that I would always desire to keep the lines of communication open between us by my willingness to forgive and forget!